I compiled a list of BDSM tests since I couldn't find one exactly that I felt was truly encompassing of all the kinks. You should definitely do #1 and #2. If you're up for more personal exploration, definitely check out 3-6 as they will have more kinks and interests giving us even more ideas of fun things to do together. (I'd love it if you explored all of them, but of course, do what you enjoy! I know they each have a LOT of questions.)
1. https://rawgit.com/Goctionni/KinkList/master/v1.0.2.html send me the image file when you're done.
2. http://www.humansexmap.com/ send me the link of your human *** map :) 
3. http://www.thatotherpaper.com/files/Yes_No_Maybe.pdf
4. http://latches.webslaves.com/checklist.htm
5. http://www.vampirespet.com/ActivityChecklist.html
6. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1WtGl55Rouq8qh9d4Cn5_o4l-9HHPOBWZxaOuA-CQuik/edit#gid=0