1 – The “foot-in-the-door” technique: This is a known and proven method to get someone to do something for you. I’m pretty sure that you already know what this and you might used it before. When it comes to e-whoring, it is the same thing. You want to ask them a”small” request that they will most likely agree to do and then ask for the real “big” which is asking for money. I’ll give you an example of something that I tried. Me: “Hey, would you mind messaging my ex on his kik and send him a picture of me and tell him that we are together so that he will be jealous?” Him: “Lol. Yes, I can do it. What’s his kik?” Me: “His kik is.....” Now here what we are doing is telling him that we are single and like that he thinks that he might have a chance with you. Then we “fake” being together and not every girl will ask someone they don’t know to fake being together unless they see the person as potential partner. I asked him to do it, and he did. Now he feels like our bond is better since he just did a favor for me. Now he is more likely going to buy from you. You can either ask him to buy *****, so you don’t waste time or, keep talking to him and then wait for him to ask you for a favor and do it. Like this, he’ll be even more likely to send you money. There is another way to do it. Same method but different in the same way. This time, instead of asking for a “small” favor first, you ask for a “bigger” favor that he will refuse to do no matter what. Then once he refuses, you can say something like “It’s fine. It was to be expected.”. He’ll feel guilty and at this point you can ask for a smaller favor which is asking for money. He just said no, and he would feel bad if he was to say no again so the odds of him buying are higher. 2- Be blunt. If the person you’re trying to get money from is surprised by the fact that you are asking money they will find it odd and might refuse to buy. Though, if you make it clear that even though you are interested in them, there’s also a reason to why you are talking to them which is you selling *****. Like this you aren’t wasting time if he is not interested in buying and he can also prepare his response to it. 3- “Ask for money, you’ll get advice. Ask for advice, you’ll get money.” Sounds right,huh? Well, it is. How many times have you come across someone that gave you advice on why you shouldn’t sell ***** when you ask them for money? Many times. Sometimes, you can literally tell them that you are selling *****, and you’re asking advice from men to boost your earnings. I once met a student studying in Business and he gave me good tips. After talking getting advice from them you can ask them if they’d like to buy some *****/videos or whatever from you. Odds of them paying will be higher. 4- Get them to agree with you. When you are trying to get money from them, you have to make sure that they agree with you selling and they would be glad to help you. End your sentences like that: “....don’t you agree?”, “...don’t you think?”, “...isn’t that right?”. You must convince so that they will agree with what you are doing and that helping you is a good thing. “Represent a world view your customers can agree with first.” – (no idea who said that lol) 5- “Help” instead of “sell”. People buy with their heart. If you give them a reason to help you then they will do it. Instead of saying something like, “Hey I am selling ***** and videos would you be interested?” say, “Hey would you mind helping me with bills I have to pay? I could give you ***** in exchange help”. Do you see the difference? In the first example we ask him right away if he wants to buy *****. In the second one, we ask him for help and we tell him that he could get rewarded if he helps you. We did not mention anything about selling. Like I said before, people buy with their hearts. If you give them a reason to buy they will. You must show them that you need their help. 6- Use live video People know that it is very easy to fake a photo. I thought that many people knew about this but it turns not a lot do. Pikek allows you to send live videos. Go to settings then media and check “Gallery will be sent as live media”. I always send a live video preview. It boosts your chance of looking real and they are less likely to ask for impossible things like nose touching or I don’t know what. What I like to do is when they ask for unusual things I will send them a live video and say: “I sent you a live video because if I had a picture of me touching my nose (or whatever he asked you to do) you would be buying from a fake person lol. Now you can be sure that I am real.” This always works. 7- Scarcity Item are more valuable to us when their availability is limited. If you tell them that you’re selling ***** for a limited time they might buy right away because they don’t want to miss this opportunity. Sometimes you can even tell them that you’re only selling to the next 3-4 person that you will come across so that they feel like they’re missing something big. Such as “Only for Today”, “for a limited time”, “for the next 5 buyers”, “15% OFF”, etc. 8- The “law of liking” We are more likely to help someone that we like. I’ll give you an example. I met this guy from Australia once he bought ***** from me. He used to buy regularly and talk with me. Oftentimes, I would give him free pictures and sext with him for free. He was so in love with me, he was randomly sending me money. 50$,100$, etc. One day I login on my PayPal and see 250$ in my account and I was like”wtf”. I messaged him asking why he did that(I didn’t care but I wanted him to know that I did) and he started to tell me how much he liked me and how nice I was and that I wasn’t like the other girls he met on kik. Most people don’t understand that the more they like you, the more money they will send you. Some of you just sell them pics once and never talk to them again. This is exactly what you should NOT do. Sometimes I will speak 3 days nonstop with the same guy just so that he thinks I care about him and then he will send me more money than usual. Don’t be afraid to ask for more money when you feel like they like you. Be sure to do the same for them. Don’t be afraid to throw a random **** picture in the chat. 9- “You scratch my back and I’ll scratch yours” Also known as “reciprocity”. People feel obliged to return a favour when somebody does something for them first. I’ve talked about it before but I just wanted to show you how important it is. Never be afraid to give more than what they buy/ask. They will do the same to you. 10 – Find similarities and point that out You can easily influence people if you both have similarities. I have met someone that was into anime like me. I didn’t bring the subject of buying ***** once I got that information. Instead, we started to talk about all kind of anime and what we liked and disliked. I didn’t even have to convince him to buy after that. I just asked him if he wanted to buy ***** then he asked for the price and it was a closed deal. Information gathering is very important when using SE and selling something to someone. The more you know someone the easier you can find arguments to persuade him into buying. 11 – “Want to hear a story?” When someone tells a story you always pay attention to what he says. Mostly because they might ask you questions about it and if you can’t answer them they’ll know that you weren’t listening. Story telling can also touch hearts. If you tell a story about how you went from being a normal student to selling pictures of yourself online they will feel bad for you and would want to help you. A lot of marketers do that. Have you ever realized how marketers in their websites or books or whatever always start by explaining how they went from being broke to building a successful company? I’m sure you did. After all that, they are ready to tell you their secret(s). They started to tell a story to persuade you into paying attention to what they’ve been through so that at the end of the story they can come up with any kind of product(s) or method(s) to sell you. Since you’ve been persuade, you will feel like buying their product(s) is the right thing to do. This can also be applied to e-whoring as long as your story has some logic and good points so they buy from you. For example, if one of your friend smokes a lot and you want him to stop you can tell him a story about how one of your friend(or any close person) used to smoke a lot and died of a throat cancer and left his wife and kids alone. He will associate himself to that story and will, hopefully, try to stop smoking. This is a good way of persuasion when trying to e-whore. 12- Guilt Sometimes when people feel guilty they will try to help you so they can feel better. This is why when I speak to them I use words like, “It was to be expected anyway”, “you’re not the first one to turn me down today”, “it’s always the same thing”, etc. They rejected your request of buying ***** and now they feel bad doing that. I realized that when I say those words they either try to make it up for me and buy or, when I ask them, if they know someone else that would want to buy ***** they refer me to someone. 13- Ask them to buy without asking. Most of the time I try to be subtle when it comes to ask them if they want to buy *****. I will usually say this:”Hey would you happen to know someone that would be interested in buying ***** by any chance? I’m trying to make extra money”. I’m sure you understand what’s happening here. I’m bringing the subject of money but not directly to them. I swear most of the time they will say yes I am. This only works if you talked to them before. Do not say that if they just added you, this won’t work. Not only do you ask them (indirectly) if they want to buy but they can also give you potential buyers. This shows that the whole chat is not only about you trying to sell them something. 14- Friendly Atmosphere Having a friendly atmosphere with your customer can lead to unexpected events. Compliment them to boost their spirits and egos. Everybody likes compliments and we’re more likely to help someone that compliments us a lot of times. 15 – Porcupine Him: “Do you do skype shows?” You: “If I do a skype show will you buy?” If he says yes, he bought. Him:”Do you have a dildo you can use?” You: “Would you like me to use one?” Him: “Yes” These are simple selling tricks that will force the customer to buy. 16- “Cons” and “Pros” Asking the customer to list “pros” and “cons” to why he should or should not buy from you. Once this is done you can say something like, “Well, the best decision is obvious, isn’t?” and proceed into selling him the *****. They will eventually realize that they’re investing into something good. 17- Ownership People don’t want to buy. They want to own. “When you own some of pictures and videos, you also own a piece of me because I feel very strongly about giving top-notch services to my client.”(Thanks Tom Hopkins). Don’t phrase it exactly like this. You’ll scare them and they’ll see that you are just trying to sell them ***** and nothing else. Change it a little bit, maybe make it shorter but try to grasp the idea behind it and use it properly.