Decrease in sexual intent comes only when she uses it as a reward. You need to know how to lose with women to know how to win with them. Women do not reward respectful men. Who are you trying to give respect to? Her? If so for what? What sort of respect are your receiving on the other side? What sort of praise are your receiving on the other side? If you look at what modern women can bring to the table its basically zero. Yeah, their body might be cute, her butt might be super thick. But what kind of value does this bring into your life beyong the physicallities. What is she doing to you or for you? Women do not sleep with men who fundamentally need them or desire them. Why does she want those arrogant assholes and bricks more than ever? It's because they're strong and provide the emotional rollercoast that she needs to keep herself in check to satisfy her needs to know that shes behind a high quality male. 85% of mirriages that end in divorce are filed by women and over 90% of breakups are inniated by women. What does this mean as a man? That means fundamentally as men we are doing something that is lowering the attraction of women. You are in any given moment right where you are. You're not where you are relative to the past, relative to the forseeable future or the perceived future or your hopes about the future. You are in any given moment right in this moment. And that is the perspective that should dicdate your actions, because all you can act on at any given time is this moment. If you are concerned about the past or your future you're only going to clutter things. Someones perception of you is basically the weighted average of your behaviours. They're looking at your entire behaviour since you know them but they're weighting very strongly towards the present. Your more recent actions are your more powerful actions.